Kind-ness\less

What would you get for helping your friend?

If your friend does not ask for your help, and you volunteer your help........... what would you get in return?    
1) you are awarded with a thanks even if you don't really even help out.
2) you get nothing...... in a sense that people take your kindness as granted.
3) people don't appreciate your help and give you a scolding of being busybody.

In this world, sometimes it doesn't pay to be kind. Some people might even use this trait to their advantage.
So i would recommend people to show your kindness to the right people at the right time. Help those who are really in need and those who will appreciate your kindness.
In another case, help those whom you loved and those you care so deeply regardless of what you will get from them.

For me, i choose to be one hell of a ''kind-less'' people. I'll choose to be a passive helper. You want my help, you just ask and i'll help in anyway i can. But if you don't then i'll show my care for your progress on solving your problem.

However,sometimes it hurts for not being able to lend a helping hands to those i cared and those who are in need desperately as i feel that i'm in no place to help and am powerless to help T.T
And my heart will ache whenever i saw people struggling with their problems of life, thinking of helping them but my urges of helping them would be suppressed sub-conciously.
Sorry for not being helpful but one day i'll............