Single
After being single for so many years...... now i have seriously yearn for a partner whom i can share my time with. And now, i'm really worry about my future, worrying if i'll be single for the rest of my life.
Up until now, i'm still bothered by this question........ but i know it's hard to find someone whom you really likes and who also likes you in the same way..... a mutual feeling. I believe that if people are destined to be together, they will eventually find each other even they are separated by seas or skies. However, i'm not patient enough to wait till that day.............. instead, i wish i could be like everyone else who are using trial and error to search for the right one.
But the main problem is that, i don't have the courage to be rejected..... like what jason tong said: '' It's the fear of rejection, so we are still single........'' and I strongly agree on this........ in the end, im just a passive coward, ain't i ? or maybe i need some guidance at this one?
Valentine
Valentine day is the day when you show your love to your sweetheart or to confess your feelings to your crush..... however you can also show your care to your precious friends on this day.
So, if you think you are single and you are the only one who's celebrating valentine alone...... think again.
Because you still have your friends.............. if valentine day hurt you that much, why don't we celebrate our single-valentine together? With all your friends out there.
Nobody said that valentine day is meant for couple........ we, the unattached, can celebrate as well.
So, no worries if you are gonna left alone on that day..... ....... remember your friends and they will be there for you.
Treasure it, because friends in itself are very important in everyone's life......
Monday, February 22, 2010
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Tantrum
I believe i'm like any normal human beings out there who had experienced an emotional outburst before.
Actually i don't quite remember when was the last time i threw tantrum, but these days, my EQ was really unstable. And recently i have been perceiving things in a more sensitive ways, thus resulting in some unhappy turn of event and also the uprising of my emo self.
But usually i was able to do things calmly...... however, things changed lately. It seems that something is lacking in my life and i dunno what it is.... I can't feel any happiness now, even if i smiled. Even the aikido which is so precious to me, only cheered me up for a little.....
I think this is it.... i have revert back to my old self..... who only befriends with loneliness.
Haizzz.....i don't really want to ruin my friends' mood and also my mood towards Chinese new year =.=
I guess i'll just need some time alone to return to my normal self just like what it is used to be like last time......... i don't really know how much time i may need but i hope i can return to normal before CNY so as to not destroy the harmonious relationship with my family and my friends....... :(
Thanks for cheering me up, even for a little bit...............................i appreciate it, my friends.....
Actually i don't quite remember when was the last time i threw tantrum, but these days, my EQ was really unstable. And recently i have been perceiving things in a more sensitive ways, thus resulting in some unhappy turn of event and also the uprising of my emo self.
But usually i was able to do things calmly...... however, things changed lately. It seems that something is lacking in my life and i dunno what it is.... I can't feel any happiness now, even if i smiled. Even the aikido which is so precious to me, only cheered me up for a little.....
I think this is it.... i have revert back to my old self..... who only befriends with loneliness.
Haizzz.....i don't really want to ruin my friends' mood and also my mood towards Chinese new year =.=
I guess i'll just need some time alone to return to my normal self just like what it is used to be like last time......... i don't really know how much time i may need but i hope i can return to normal before CNY so as to not destroy the harmonious relationship with my family and my friends....... :(
Thanks for cheering me up, even for a little bit...............................i appreciate it, my friends.....
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Kind-ness\less
What would you get for helping your friend?
If your friend does not ask for your help, and you volunteer your help........... what would you get in return?
1) you are awarded with a thanks even if you don't really even help out.
2) you get nothing...... in a sense that people take your kindness as granted.
3) people don't appreciate your help and give you a scolding of being busybody.
In this world, sometimes it doesn't pay to be kind. Some people might even use this trait to their advantage.
So i would recommend people to show your kindness to the right people at the right time. Help those who are really in need and those who will appreciate your kindness.
In another case, help those whom you loved and those you care so deeply regardless of what you will get from them.
For me, i choose to be one hell of a ''kind-less'' people. I'll choose to be a passive helper. You want my help, you just ask and i'll help in anyway i can. But if you don't then i'll show my care for your progress on solving your problem.
However,sometimes it hurts for not being able to lend a helping hands to those i cared and those who are in need desperately as i feel that i'm in no place to help and am powerless to help T.T
And my heart will ache whenever i saw people struggling with their problems of life, thinking of helping them but my urges of helping them would be suppressed sub-conciously.
Sorry for not being helpful but one day i'll............
If your friend does not ask for your help, and you volunteer your help........... what would you get in return?
1) you are awarded with a thanks even if you don't really even help out.
2) you get nothing...... in a sense that people take your kindness as granted.
3) people don't appreciate your help and give you a scolding of being busybody.
In this world, sometimes it doesn't pay to be kind. Some people might even use this trait to their advantage.
So i would recommend people to show your kindness to the right people at the right time. Help those who are really in need and those who will appreciate your kindness.
In another case, help those whom you loved and those you care so deeply regardless of what you will get from them.
For me, i choose to be one hell of a ''kind-less'' people. I'll choose to be a passive helper. You want my help, you just ask and i'll help in anyway i can. But if you don't then i'll show my care for your progress on solving your problem.
However,sometimes it hurts for not being able to lend a helping hands to those i cared and those who are in need desperately as i feel that i'm in no place to help and am powerless to help T.T
And my heart will ache whenever i saw people struggling with their problems of life, thinking of helping them but my urges of helping them would be suppressed sub-conciously.
Sorry for not being helpful but one day i'll............
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Absolute
Absolute..... is there anything such as 'absolute' out there? For me, there's nothing such as absolute.
Absolute only appear in theories and logic as a hypothetical answer. 1+1=2 in maths the answer for the question will absolutely be 2. However if mass is considered 1+1 will not be 2. Many things in this world appears the same but ultimately different internally and also externally. And it is up to people to judge the differences.
Not to sway away from the topic....... absolute does not exists in this world as many things happen outside the manipulation and calculations of human beings. With this in mind we can know the reason why chances, probability, variable and uncertainties exist in maths formula. For example, 99% hit rate does'nt mean u can get it with 2 attempts and 100% does'nt mean 1 hit KO either.
For all humans, there is no guarantee in this world, there is only warranty. Rather then focusing on 1 possibility, people should prepare for any possible happenings regardless of how small the possibilities are.......... and who knows someday this method might somehow save your ass.
P.S: While facing uncertainties, luck will be your greatest weapon and asset of all.
Absolute only appear in theories and logic as a hypothetical answer. 1+1=2 in maths the answer for the question will absolutely be 2. However if mass is considered 1+1 will not be 2. Many things in this world appears the same but ultimately different internally and also externally. And it is up to people to judge the differences.
Not to sway away from the topic....... absolute does not exists in this world as many things happen outside the manipulation and calculations of human beings. With this in mind we can know the reason why chances, probability, variable and uncertainties exist in maths formula. For example, 99% hit rate does'nt mean u can get it with 2 attempts and 100% does'nt mean 1 hit KO either.
For all humans, there is no guarantee in this world, there is only warranty. Rather then focusing on 1 possibility, people should prepare for any possible happenings regardless of how small the possibilities are.......... and who knows someday this method might somehow save your ass.
P.S: While facing uncertainties, luck will be your greatest weapon and asset of all.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
2009 to 2010
Alright, since i'm heading towards year 2010 so let me conclude my life in 2009 and write down my wish and resolution for 2010^^
2009
In 2009 and until now, the last few hours until 2010.... i've been a lazy, irresponsible, undependable and unmotivated person and am leading a ''not so wonderful'' life. And im sure i had been giving everyone a headache, especially my assignment mate.
Also, i wanna borrow this opportunity to apologize to all my friends for not being a good, supporting, responsible, caring, cooperate or that i had hurt you or being offensive........ please forgive me.
2010
In 2010, i wanna be a ''new leaf''. I wanna be and i hoped that i can be a good person, a good friend and a good family member. I wish to be more motivated to study and other stuff........and more optimistic towards life（No EMO)
Secondly, ''to never give up half way'' will be my new quote..... and hopefully it will be applied in my aikido and violin training. And thirdly, is to be a better man and i'll try to understand myself so as to improve myself and be more ready to face tomorrow.
To realizes this, i'll 1st change my appearance or sort, to change my old self to a tidier and neater version of me.
As for the wish for entering 2010..... the 1st one will be to find myself a sweetheart. Because my mum is hurrying me and giving me pressure to find a girlfriend. So i guess this takes number 1 priority........ The 2nd wish will be to excel in my studies and also my intra & interpersonal skills.
Lastly, wishing every human beings on the earth( Astronaunts and martians do not count) can have a better life.
HAPPY NEW YEAR and HAPPY 2010 ^^
2009
In 2009 and until now, the last few hours until 2010.... i've been a lazy, irresponsible, undependable and unmotivated person and am leading a ''not so wonderful'' life. And im sure i had been giving everyone a headache, especially my assignment mate.
Also, i wanna borrow this opportunity to apologize to all my friends for not being a good, supporting, responsible, caring, cooperate or that i had hurt you or being offensive........ please forgive me.
2010
In 2010, i wanna be a ''new leaf''. I wanna be and i hoped that i can be a good person, a good friend and a good family member. I wish to be more motivated to study and other stuff........and more optimistic towards life（No EMO)
Secondly, ''to never give up half way'' will be my new quote..... and hopefully it will be applied in my aikido and violin training. And thirdly, is to be a better man and i'll try to understand myself so as to improve myself and be more ready to face tomorrow.
To realizes this, i'll 1st change my appearance or sort, to change my old self to a tidier and neater version of me.
As for the wish for entering 2010..... the 1st one will be to find myself a sweetheart. Because my mum is hurrying me and giving me pressure to find a girlfriend. So i guess this takes number 1 priority........ The 2nd wish will be to excel in my studies and also my intra & interpersonal skills.
Lastly, wishing every human beings on the earth( Astronaunts and martians do not count) can have a better life.
HAPPY NEW YEAR and HAPPY 2010 ^^
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Hedgehog's dilemma
Often people ask me why i stay single, why i don;t wanna find a girlfriend? The reason is not because i don't want to find one, not because there aren't any good gals available. It just that i don't wanna get hurt that's all. And it's hard for me to get close to a gal.
Just like a group of hedgehogs all seek to become close to one another in order to share their heat during cold weather. However, once accomplished, they cannot avoid hurting one another with their sharp quills. They must step away from one another. Though they all share the intention of a close reciprocal relationship,they just can't avoid to hurt each other.
Just like a group of hedgehogs all seek to become close to one another in order to share their heat during cold weather. However, once accomplished, they cannot avoid hurting one another with their sharp quills. They must step away from one another. Though they all share the intention of a close reciprocal relationship,they just can't avoid to hurt each other.
Monday, December 21, 2009
The Four Seasons
The Four seasons Sonnets, believed to be written by Antonio Vivaldi . There are four concertos to go along with the sonnets, each named after a season. And among the 4 concertos. spring and autumn are the 2 pieces that i enjoy listening to.
Spring
Springtime is upon us.
The birds celebrate her return with festive song,
and murmuring streams are softly caressed by the breezes.
Thunderstorms, those heralds of Spring, roar, casting their dark mantle over heaven,
Then they die away to silence, and the birds take up their charming songs once more.
On the flower-strewn meadow, with leafy branches rustling overhead, the goat-herd sleeps, his faithful dog beside him.
Led by the festive sound of rustic bagpipes, nymphs and shepherds lightly dance beneath the brilliant canopy of spring.
Summer
Under a hard Season, fired up by the Sun
Languishes man, languishes the flock and burns the pine
We hear the cuckoo's voice; then sweet songs of the turtledove and finch are heard.
Soft breezes stir the air... but threatening north wind sweeps them suddenly aside.
The shepherd trembles, fearing violent storms and his fate.
The fear of lightning and fierce thunder
Robs his tired limbs of rest
As gnats and flies buzz furiously around.
Alas, his fears were justified
The Heavens thunders and roar and majestically
Cuts the head off the wheat and damages the grain.
Autumn
Celebrates the peasant, with songs and dances,
The pleasure of a bountiful harvest.
And fired up by Bacchus' liquor, many end their revelry in sleep.
Everyone is made to forget their cares and to sing and dance
By the air which is tempered with pleasure
And (by) the season that invites so many, many
Out of their sweetest slumber to fine enjoyment
The hunters emerge at the new dawn,
And with horns and dogs and guns depart upon their hunting
The beast flees and they follow its trail;
Terrified and tired of the great noise
Of guns and dogs, the beast, wounded, threatens
Languidly to flee, but harried, dies.
Winter
To tremble from cold in the icy snow,
In the harsh breath of a horrid wind;
To run, stamping one's feet every moment,
Our teeth chattering in the extreme cold
Before the fire to pass peaceful,
Contented days while the rain outside pours down.
We tread the icy path slowly and cautiously, for fear of tripping and falling.
Then turn abruptly, slip, crash on the ground and, rising, hasten on across the ice lest it cracks up.
We feel the chill north winds course through the home despite the locked and bolted doors...
this is winter, which nonetheless brings its own delights.
Spring
Springtime is upon us.
The birds celebrate her return with festive song,
and murmuring streams are softly caressed by the breezes.
Thunderstorms, those heralds of Spring, roar, casting their dark mantle over heaven,
Then they die away to silence, and the birds take up their charming songs once more.
On the flower-strewn meadow, with leafy branches rustling overhead, the goat-herd sleeps, his faithful dog beside him.
Led by the festive sound of rustic bagpipes, nymphs and shepherds lightly dance beneath the brilliant canopy of spring.
Summer
Under a hard Season, fired up by the Sun
Languishes man, languishes the flock and burns the pine
We hear the cuckoo's voice; then sweet songs of the turtledove and finch are heard.
Soft breezes stir the air... but threatening north wind sweeps them suddenly aside.
The shepherd trembles, fearing violent storms and his fate.
The fear of lightning and fierce thunder
Robs his tired limbs of rest
As gnats and flies buzz furiously around.
Alas, his fears were justified
The Heavens thunders and roar and majestically
Cuts the head off the wheat and damages the grain.
Autumn
Celebrates the peasant, with songs and dances,
The pleasure of a bountiful harvest.
And fired up by Bacchus' liquor, many end their revelry in sleep.
Everyone is made to forget their cares and to sing and dance
By the air which is tempered with pleasure
And (by) the season that invites so many, many
Out of their sweetest slumber to fine enjoyment
The hunters emerge at the new dawn,
And with horns and dogs and guns depart upon their hunting
The beast flees and they follow its trail;
Terrified and tired of the great noise
Of guns and dogs, the beast, wounded, threatens
Languidly to flee, but harried, dies.
Winter
To tremble from cold in the icy snow,
In the harsh breath of a horrid wind;
To run, stamping one's feet every moment,
Our teeth chattering in the extreme cold
Before the fire to pass peaceful,
Contented days while the rain outside pours down.
We tread the icy path slowly and cautiously, for fear of tripping and falling.
Then turn abruptly, slip, crash on the ground and, rising, hasten on across the ice lest it cracks up.
We feel the chill north winds course through the home despite the locked and bolted doors...
this is winter, which nonetheless brings its own delights.
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